For as long as I can remember, my father has been my valentine. He has never failed to make it known that he loved me before I drew my first breath. And whether I am single or dating, I know I will always have at least one valentine in my life.
When my sister and I lived at home, on Valentine’s Day there were always two cards, picked out and signed by him, letting us know how special we were to him.
The cards still appear even though I have moved, only now they appear in a mailbox instead of by a breakfast plate.
What those cards and gifts have taught me is that I am loved, no matter my current dating status. They have helped me ease the pain of breakups and Valentine’s Days spent along.
They taught me that Valentine’s Day is a day to express your love to all those whom you love, whether a spouse, a family member or a friend.
Above all, they have been a wonderful expression of the love God has for each of His children, continuous and unconditional.
I encourage parents to show this love to their children. Especially if they are in high school and a Valentine’s Day alone has them down, it can make their day easier.
Some other ideas to make the day fun for teens are:
Do not tease them about their “love life.”
Offer to chaperone a party for them and their friends.
Organize a party for the church youth group.
Throw a party for the church’s senior adults, hosted by the youth.
Plan with them to give a valentine treat to cheer up someone else.
Be understanding and available for them to talk.
Let them wait to talk until they are ready.
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