Resolving Conflict God’s Way

Jerry and Carole Wilkins. New York: Page Publishing, Inc., 2015. 86 pages. (Paperback).

Conflict is inevitable.” The first words of “Resolving Conflict God’s Way” ring true, pretty much whatever the setting may be. In this book, Jerry and Carole Wilkins contend that there is a biblical way to address personal conflict in its various forms — marriage, church, friendships, work.

Presented in a Bible study format, the authors begin each section with Scriptures, then add a commentary on the Scripture and end with a list of pointed, sometimes intense, questions for the reader to consider. Each chapter begins with “God Says.” One chapter example is “God Says Disagreeing in the Christian Way.” I know — I raised an eyebrow at this too. But the authors listed eight verses that clearly describe how Christians should conduct themselves during a disagreement, then convincingly applied the verses to you. I mean, me — us. The questions at the end, if seriously and honestly considered, serve to shine a light on our motives and behavior. Ouch.

The Wilkinses write with authority and for good reason. Jerry Wilkins is a former pastor and denominational leader, and Carole Wilkins is a trained lay counselor. They live in the Tuscaloosa area.

Reviewed by Martine Bates Fairbanks, Ed.D.