I just can’t imagine you would ever have a thing bother you,” she said. “You always seem to be so on top of things and always have just the right answer.”
Now, this conversation was getting quite ridiculous. Here I was a complete bag of nerves. My heart was so concerned about a matter. I had prayed, and I had tried to be logical about the problem. But at this time, like any other human being, I needed reassurance.
“Why can’t I have problems sometimes just like anyone else? I’ll share what is wrong inside if you will just listen,” I said.
“Lord,” I prayed, “You’re going to have to give me strength at this time because it is obvious to this dear one I am superhuman and should have no experience of any sort of frustration, not even for a moment.”
But how different our Lord. He knows us. He remembers we are but dust in His sight. Always, He is ready to listen. For He knows even the ones who climb the highest mountains to pray for leadership, at times are caught in the valley and need direction, from Him and from a friend.
One example from the Bible of a leader needing help is the prophet Elijah, who after a great victory ran in fear and fell, his face in the ground, totally spent. The angel of the Lord (Jesus Himself) came and touched him. He said nothing — no rebuke, no command. He just touched him. He took His servant in His arms, loving him, and He provided meat and water for his need.
“Let me die,” cried Elijah. “I’m no better than my fathers.”
Moment of doubt
Depressed to the point of suicidal contemplations, Elijah longed to be finished with it all.
No doubt this incident must have upset God to some degree. His plans were upset. One day away from following through and finishing off Jezebel, Elijah runs away. Thoroughly convinced by the miracle on Carmel, Israel was ready for God’s leadership. Yet God simply touched Elijah and patiently waited in the cave to speak to His exhausted prophet.
God always listens and knows even the strongest have moments when they feel they are anything but adequate for the task at hand.
I used myself as an example at the beginning to relate to many I have known through the years who loved and took the time to listen to others. But, to convey any need for a listening ear on their part, at times would almost be a source of embarrassment and hurt on the part of the person consulted. Some people do not want to lose the image they have of particular people, so they give them no room to be human.
Being closedmouthed about trouble is many times considered very long-suffering and strong. Now, I admit under certain circumstances it is commendable and inspiring. But, there are times when you need to talk to someone, either a friend or someone who is trained to listen.
How many people are weeping alone today because we don’t want to admit to ourselves they may need us, even though they are such a source of strength to us.
There is no one in the world who at times does not need to cry, to talk, to have a friend. Though I may not know who you are, God knows.
You have a right to let the real you come through. God is your source of strength, and as a leader to many or a friend to many, you do excel. But none of us are so tall we do not need to come to the Lord and say we need help.
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